In the last two weeks, I have been exchanging emails with a 29 year old woman who lives in Russia. She has been rather open with her life and the only relationship she has had with a guy. Ultimately, she got cheated on as he was with another woman. It upset her pretty badly.
I explained to her that some people cheat because they get tired of being around the same person for a long time. Here's I view it here. If you're in it for a long term relationship, then you have to deal with one person for good unless it's one of those polygamy relationships. I also explained to her about some people wanting someone better over who they are currently with. My view on that is that one will only make this a lot worse and cause a lot of tension and end it on a very sour note.
This can happen to both women and men. Bear that in mind. If people really wanted to be out of a relationship, they should say so bluntly. That way, it doesn't hurt much for both. If anything, they could be friends and that's it. Being on good terms is far braver than just causing more trouble and making things look worse on your part. If you're looking to cheat, don't. You will only have regret and it will make finding another person a lot more difficult and the possible what if's of being someone that could have been the one.
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